Yet we may be able to take a page from the healing process of those victims who never report the crimes against them in order to speak to the needs of victims of crime in general. Perhaps then we could propose a more effective blend of supports and intersecting arenas for healing both from within and outside the judicial system. For victims of child abuse, and sexual assault victims for instance, many of whom have never reported crimes against them, healing takes place over many years. That healing varies in outcome and depends upon opportunity, personal resilience and the capacity to reframe the expected negative outcomes of trauma into personal moments of courage and self empowerment. Most often the healing has taken place quite apart from a judicial system wherein offenders often are not caught, and quite apart from victims being supported or believed by families. Many unnamed adults work at healing on their own from child abuse or sexual assault experiences never coming in contact with the judicial system, while 75% of our prison population have a history of child abuse as well.
…The first step is to engage the wounded psyche in the arena of restoration from trauma itself. This is its own work and must be done by victims, offenders and communities alike. Experts agree that humour, intelligence and belief in â€œsomething goodâ€ beyond the trauma experience combine to define resilience. My experience after many years of work in this field is that real healing takes place from trauma when victims, offenders and communities have safe arenas that leverage their capacity for resilience and reconnection to their more whole selves. Removing all roadblocks that make this work inaccessible to those who have limited means, who we deem unworthy victims (such as offenders) and to communities whose profiles have developed into victim profiles (such as high crime communities) would work toward making personal healing from trauma a greater reality.
…So how do we take the need for real healing and clothe it in real justice? Behind the individual labels of victim,
offender and community lies the core issue of healing everyone on both sides of the prison bars.
Our responsibility as a society is to:
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