…Tahira was married off at 12. In Pakistani villages and tribal communities it is still common for girls from poor families to be given to husbands at puberty.
But her mother says she became concerned when her son-in-law, Subha Khan, started to beat and torture her daughter.
It was he who poured acid on her and dumped her in a room to die, her mother says.
Tahiraâ€™s face was destroyed. So was her upper body. She screamed in agony for 14 days before she passed away, Bano said.
But when they went to the police, officers did nothing.
When her eldest son approached government officials to complain, Khan and his father threatened him with dire consequences.
Then they were sent a message by the local jirga, a group of male tribal elders that functions as a decision-making council in Pashtun society, advising them to marry one of their sons to one of Khanâ€™s sisters by way of recompense for Tahira.
Bano refused to do so and was still fuming when she heard that a group of female activists had set up a womenâ€™s only jirga in Saidu Sharif, the twin town of Mingora, the largest city in Swat.
â€œWeâ€™re fed up with male-only jirgas which decide only in favour of men and sacrifice women for their own mistakes,â€ said Tabbassum Adnan, 35, head of the 25-member jirga.
…Dissatisfaction with mainstream justice is common in Pakistan, where it can take years to process a case through the courts.
Taliban insurgents were emboldened by complaints that the courts were too corrupt and too slow, and tribal jirgas present the most viable alternative.
But they typically ignore or discriminate against womenâ€™s rights. Women are often sold in marriage to seek forgiveness for menâ€™s crimes, their fates decided without consultation.
Adnan says she first asked to join the main Swat Qaumi Aman Jirga to ensure justice for women, but they refused.
â€œSo, we have formed our own jirga now and we will decide cases involving women,â€ she said, wearing a traditional black veil that covers her hair and body.
â€œOur only aim is to provide legal support to women which we are doing by involving police and government authorities,â€ she added.
Adnan, who divorced her husband after 20 years of what she called a troubled marriage, said her jirga is called Khwaindo Tolana, which means â€œsisterâ€™s groupâ€.
It was born out of the result of a womenâ€™s empowerment programme run by a local aid group.
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